Do you ever look at your life and just think…. wow…. I effed this up real good!? Sometimes I look back at my dreams and goals and my life and wonder why my reality looks so different than my dreams. Now…. I say this coming out of a few really challenging years. When I look back at the challenges I’ve been through in last little bit I can still feel the pain in my body. No I haven’t been injured or physically hurt, but pain doesn’t only come from physical injury. But non

Dating and weight loss… Yup you read that correctly.  I’ve battled with my weight, I battle with dating, and the more I do both, the more I realized they are totally connected.  I’m a bit emotional about the entire dating thing at the moment, and it’s hard to explain how dating can affect your weight, but it totally can. So…, I’ve written about this before, but it is hard to explain if you haven’t been dating in your 30’s.  Many people don’t understand my dating woes… the onl

I’ve always been someone who has done my own thing… walked to the beat of my own drum, but at the same time, I’ve never been one to share those things openly.   I’ve had relationships… good and bad… I’ve traveled a lot… mostly good… I’ve moved out and live on my own… very good…I enjoy sitting in coffee shops reading, or walking through parks….  I’ve always been a very shy person, and I’ve always kept a lot to myself.  I’m not sure if it’s the way I was raised, or just the res